Astrology is full of mystery, personality insights, and just enough drama to keep things interesting. Whether you’re reading your daily horoscope or doing a deep dive into your birth chart, zodiac signs have long been used to decode human behavior. One area people often get curious about is selfishness—as in, who’s most likely to put themselves first, no matter what?
Of course, everyone can be selfish sometimes, and it’s not necessarily a bad thing. Setting boundaries and prioritizing your own needs is healthy. But some signs? They just take it a little too far. Whether it’s hogging the spotlight, always needing things their way, or forgetting how to share, certain zodiac signs tend to top the list when it comes to self-centered behavior.
Let’s break it down and rank the most selfish zodiac signs from least to most—and maybe throw in a little tea while we’re at it.
12. Pisces (February 19 – March 20)
Selfish? Never. Sensitive? Always.
Pisces is the dreamer of the zodiac, and honestly, they’re too busy caring about everyone else’s feelings to be labeled selfish. If anything, Pisces tends to give too much of themselves. They’re empathetic, emotional, and often self-sacrificing to the point of burnout. Sure, they might drift into their own fantasy world from time to time, but selfish? Not even close.
11. Cancer (June 21 – July 22)
Loyal, nurturing, and deeply emotional.
Cancers are the moms of the zodiac—even when they’re not actual moms. They’re all about taking care of their loved ones, often putting others first even when they should be taking time for themselves. They can get a bit passive-aggressive when they feel unappreciated, but selfish? That’s not really their vibe.
10. Libra (September 23 – October 22)
Peaceful to a fault.
Libras will bend over backwards just to avoid conflict. They want everyone to be happy—even if that means sacrificing their own happiness. Their obsession with balance and harmony often leads them to put others first. But beware: when Libras do act selfishly, it’s usually in the name of “keeping the peace.” Manipulation disguised as selflessness? Maybe just a little selfish.
9. Virgo (August 23 – September 22)
Helpful, but highly opinionated.
Virgos are the perfectionists of the zodiac. They’re always ready to help—especially if they can fix something. While not overtly selfish, they can come off as judgmental or controlling when things aren’t up to their standards. Their selfishness tends to be masked as “doing what’s best for you,” but make no mistake: they believe their way is the right way.
8. Taurus (April 20 – May 20)
Loyal… but stubborn as heck.
Taurus is dependable, chill, and loves the finer things in life. They’re not selfish in the traditional sense, but they do have a “my way or the highway” energy. Once a Taurus digs their heels in, good luck changing their mind. They like comfort, routine, and their way of doing things. That stubborn streak? It can definitely come off as self-centered.
7. Capricorn (December 22 – January 19)
Hardworking to the point of tunnel vision.
Capricorns are all about goals, ambition, and building their empire. They’re not selfish because they don’t care about others—it’s more that they get so laser-focused on their personal success that everything (and everyone) else fades into the background. It’s not personal, it’s just business… right?
6. Aquarius (January 20 – February 18)
Loving humanity… but ghosting individuals.
Aquarians are progressive, intelligent, and often obsessed with “the bigger picture.” They care deeply about causes, social justice, and humanity as a whole. The irony? They sometimes forget about the people closest to them. Their detachment and aloofness can feel cold or selfish in one-on-one relationships. Saving the world is great, but don’t forget to text back, Aquarius.
5. Gemini (May 21 – June 20)
Fun, flirty, and a little flaky.
Geminis are social butterflies with a wild streak. They’re not selfish on purpose—they’re just impulsive and easily distracted. They might cancel plans last-minute or switch up loyalties based on their mood. It’s not that they don’t care… it’s just that their attention span is about as long as a TikTok video. Loving a Gemini means learning to go with the flow—or being okay with being left behind.
4. Sagittarius (November 22 – December 21)
Adventurous and unapologetic.
Sagittarius is all about freedom. They hate feeling tied down and will do just about anything to avoid being boxed in. This independence is admirable—but it can also make them seem inconsiderate or selfish. Sagittarians will ghost, bail, or change plans last minute if it suits their spontaneous mood. They live for the thrill, even if it means stepping on a few toes.
3. Leo (July 23 – August 22)
The drama king/queen.
Leos are generous, warm-hearted, and loyal. But let’s not pretend they don’t love the spotlight. Leos thrive on attention and admiration, and when they don’t get it? Expect fireworks. They can be a little self-absorbed, especially when they feel underappreciated. Still, their selfishness is usually wrapped in charm, making it hard to stay mad at them for too long.
2. Aries (March 21 – April 19)
Bold, brash, and all about #1.
Aries is a fire sign ruled by Mars, the planet of action—and boy, do they act. Impulsive, competitive, and aggressive when it comes to getting what they want, Aries doesn’t wait around for anyone. They chase their desires head-on, often without thinking of the consequences. It’s not that they mean to be selfish… it just doesn’t always occur to them to slow down and consider other people’s needs.
1. Scorpio (October 23 – November 21)
Mysterious, intense… and majorly self-focused.
And the crown for most selfish sign goes to… Scorpio. While they’re fiercely loyal to those they trust, Scorpios can be deeply manipulative, secretive, and possessive. They guard their emotions like a vault and rarely do anything without a hidden agenda. Their selfishness comes from their need for control and their fear of vulnerability. When they feel threatened, they’ll strike first—and ask questions never.
Final Thoughts: Is It Really That Deep?
Okay, okay—before you come for me in the comments, remember: we all have selfish tendencies. Your moon, rising, and other planetary placements can seriously shift how these traits show up in your life. Just because your sun sign made the top of the list doesn’t mean you’re doomed to be self-centered forever. And just because someone’s sign ranked low doesn’t mean they’re a saint.
Astrology is a tool for self-awareness, not judgment. So use this list to reflect, laugh, and maybe even spot some patterns in your relationships. After all, a little selfishness here and there? Totally human.
FAQs About Zodiac Signs and Selfishness
1. Can someone’s moon or rising sign make them more or less selfish?
Absolutely. While your sun sign represents your core personality, your moon sign influences your emotional world, and your rising sign affects how you present yourself to others. Someone with a selfless sun sign like Pisces but a bold Aries moon might come across more impulsive or self-focused emotionally. It’s all about the full birth chart!
2. Are selfish zodiac signs bad in relationships?
Not necessarily! Every sign brings strengths and challenges to relationships. A “selfish” sign might just be independent, assertive, or confident—all traits that can be attractive and even beneficial in the right balance. The key is communication, empathy, and being aware of your behavior in a partnership.
3. Can people change their selfish behavior regardless of zodiac sign?
Yes, 100%. Astrology highlights tendencies, not destiny. If you recognize selfish patterns in yourself (or someone else), you can absolutely grow past them. Self-awareness is the first step. Astrology just offers a fun and insightful way to start that process.